Self Worth for Men Dubai

by Susie Carr on June 19, 2017
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Self Stress and Change

Our modern world changes so rapidly that many of us feel in a permanent state of stress and anxiety leaving little room for self-reflection. Men traditionally are not socialized to focus on their feelings or to express their full range of emotions. When men limit their emotional expression it doesn’t mean they don’t feel emotions – what it means is they are dismissing their feelings, minimizing them, suppressing, avoiding and not acknowledging them.

Instead of expressing their feelings, men sometimes channel their emotions in ways not always useful or helpful to them or to others. When men continually mute or divert their emotional expression, self-esteem can suffer and self worth may diminish. Some of the more serious consequences of not expressing emotions appropriately can lead to depression, anxiety, addiction, and aggressive and abusive behavior. Counselling is a useful way to deal with these issues.

For men working in the gulf region, the pace of life is often so frantic there is little time for relationships or self-care. Families suffer when partners and fathers are travelling all the time or working such long hours, family or couple time is seriously limited. Relationships come under threat under these circumstances eroding self-esteem, as men begin to doubt their ability to maintain balance in their lives.

When lifestyle imbalance effects families and couples begin to have problems, they often seek help through counselling to help them manage their problems.

Self Esteem and Self Worth

High self-esteem is usually experienced through professional and personal achievement. Having a successful career or relationship or reaching personal goals through artistic or physical pursuits are good examples. Self-esteem is often firmly fixed in the areas of achievement.

For others it can come from physical appearance so for this type of person the way they look and appear to others is important. This type of person’s lifestyle and how it reflects on them is another way their self esteem is elevated, so driving a fancy car, having a lifestyle that reflects affluence are all ways to achieve this.

Self esteem acquired through personal achievement or acquisitions can often be transient so it’s wise to have a balanced view these things. If life circumstances suddenly change and you have no balance self esteem can be dramatically impacted.

Without having a solid sense of self and self worth you may not be able to stay grounded if life circumstances suddenly work against you. The question to ask yourself is, If I lost everything I value tomorrow could I still maintain my self worth and at the deepest level of my being would I still believe I’m ok?

To have self worth is to have a deep and loving acceptance of who you are at the very deepest level of your being.

In her one day workshop, Self Worth for Men, Life Works’s Susie Carr facilitates conversations between men about their self worth in a relaxed atmosphere. Group numbers are limited to provide a safe and confidential setting.

If you would like to talk, feel free to reach out to us. An LifeWorks therapist would be able to help.

Ms. Afsheen Sheikh
Ms. Afsheen Sheikh
Senior Therapist - English and Urdu
MSc in Applied Behaviour Analysis - Queens University of Belfast,UK - Experience: 5 Years
Dr.Marwa Abd El Hamid
Dr.Marwa Abd El Hamid
Clinical Psychologist - Arabic and English
Ph.D. in Psychology Ain-Shams University - Experience: 10 Years
Dr. Andrea Tosatto
Dr. Andrea Tosatto
Clinical Psychologist - Children, Adults, and People of Determination - English, Italian and Spanish
MA, BSC, MSC, PSYD - Experience: 20 Years
Dr. Anna Grazia Lecca
Dr. Anna Grazia Lecca
Clinical Psychologist - Italian, English, French, Learning Arabic
PhD in Clinical Psychology - Experience: 20 Years
Dr. Shaju George
Dr. Shaju George
Specialist Psychiatrist - English, Malayalam
MBBS : Calicut University, DPM & MD: Kerala University, Aviation Medicine: Flying medicine UK - Experience: 18 Years
Iva Vukusic
Iva Vukusic
Clinical Psychologist - English, Croatian and German
Master of Psychology, Training of Trainers (ToT) Community
Dr. Girish Banwari
Dr. Girish Banwari
Specialist Psychiatrist - English and Hindi
M.B.B.S., M.D. (Psychiatry) - Experience: 10 Years
Jyotika Aggarwal
Jyotika Aggarwal
Clinical Psychologist - English and Hindi
M.A.(Clinical Psychology), RE-CBT - Experience: 7 Years
Dr. Kirin Fiona Hilliar
Dr. Kirin Fiona Hilliar
Psychologist - English
PhD(Psychology), Master of Psychology (Forensic) - Experience: 11 Years
Sailaja Menon
Sailaja Menon
Counseling Psychologist - English, Malayalam, Tamil and Hindi
CAGS (Multicultural Counseling), Johns Hopkins University, USA - Experience: 25 Years
Sneha John
Sneha John
Psychologist - English, French, Malayalam and basic Arabic
Masters in Clinical Psychology ,Bachelor of Psychology with Counselling from Middlesex University

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